{"id":11320,"date":"2025-01-02T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-02T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/espacestudio.ca\/bride-and-groom-cant-agree-on-wedding-size-and-style-so-theyre-having-separate-his-and-hers-ceremonies\/"},"modified":"2025-01-02T03:00:00","modified_gmt":"2025-01-02T08:00:00","slug":"bride-and-groom-cant-agree-on-wedding-size-and-style-so-theyre-having-separate-his-and-hers-ceremonies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/espacestudio.ca\/en\/bride-and-groom-cant-agree-on-wedding-size-and-style-so-theyre-having-separate-his-and-hers-ceremonies\/","title":{"rendered":"Bride and groom can\u2019t agree on wedding size and style \u2014 so they\u2019re having separate \u2018his\u2019 and \u2018hers\u2019 ceremonies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>\u201cI\u00a0do\u2019s\u201d sold separately?<\/p>\n<p>Customarily, newlyweds are often gifted monogrammed \u201chis\u201d and \u201chers\u201d hand towels in celebration of their holy matrimony.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But luxe linens are apparently the last thing on one uncompromising couple\u2019s list, as the fussy fianc\u00e9es are giving themselves separate \u201chis\u201d and \u201chers\u201d wedding ceremonies.\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure class=\"nyp-slideshow-modal-image wp-block-image aligncenter size-large\"><figcaption>A Reddit user claims that their unyielding sister-in-law and her fianc\u00e9 are hosting \u201chis\u201d and \u201cher\u201d wedding ceremonies after failing to agree on one style.   <span class=\"credit\">Ljupco Smokovski \u2013 stock.adobe.com<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cShe wants a small wedding, he wants a big wedding,\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/weddingshaming\/comments\/1hmvi2o\/sil_is_having_his_and_hers_weddings_and_i_want_to\/?share_id=TVa2VvzudkSdDL1fMHaGV&amp;utm_content=1&amp;utm_medium=ios_app&amp;utm_name=ioscss&amp;utm_source=share&amp;utm_term=1&amp;rdt=47146\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">explained an outraged Reddit user <\/a>of their unnamed sister-in-law\u2019s unconventional plans to tie the knot. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cInstead of compromising or working together, they\u2019re each having their own wedding.\u201d<\/p>\n<aside class=\"single__inline-module aligncenter wp-block-nypost-editor-primary-tag\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>For their nontraditional nuptials, the \u201cboujee\u201d bride has arranged a destination micro-wedding to be held over three hours away from the pair\u2019s hometown. <\/p>\n<p>Conversely, her groom has organized a large local bash.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The nearly-weds have secured separate venues, hired staff and created two different gift registries, according to the post \u2014 which is firing up fury from fuming readers.\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure class=\"nyp-slideshow-modal-image wp-block-image aligncenter size-large\"><figcaption>The Reddit user revealed that their sister-in-law is forcing close family members to attend both weddings at their own expense.  <span class=\"credit\">lulu \u2013 stock.adobe.com<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u201cDumbest, most self-centered thing I have ever heard,\u201d scoffed an incensed commenter.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s insane,\u201d said another, which was followed by rebuking remarks such as, \u201cThey\u2019re doomed\u201d and \u201cThey\u2019re grifters conducting a massive money grab.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI sure would not be attending both weddings,\u201d wrote an equally offended onlooker.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDefinitely not [buying] two separate gifts either,\u201d another spat.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But, unfortunately for the Redditor, skipping out or skimping on one of the ceremonies just isn\u2019t an option.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe have to go to both,\u201d they shockingly revealed in replies to the comments. \u201c[My sister-in-law] is being just a teeny bit bonkers and has thrown temper tantrums over it already.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"nyp-slideshow-modal-image wp-block-image aligncenter size-large\"><figcaption>Virtual commenters blasted the couple for forcing guests to attend two separate wedding ceremonies, as well as pay for separate gifts and expensive accommodations.  <span class=\"credit\">Andrii \u2013 stock.adobe.com<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-reddit wp-block-embed-reddit\"\/>\n<p>And when it comes to the sister-in-law\u2019s forthcoming ceremonies, not only are loved ones required to be present for both f\u00eates, but they, too, must pay upwards of $200 per night \u2014 at a two-night minimum \u2014 for lodging at a mountainside hotel.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The annoyed complainer conceded that the future spouses seem to have a \u201csolid relationship\u201d \u2014 adding, however, that their disjointed \u201cI do\u2019s\u201d would \u201cseem to counteract the whole idea of marriage.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLike if it\u2019s about both of you joining together,\u201d wondered the Redditor, \u201cwhy are you each having your own separate thing?.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Forcing invitees to blindly follow orders seems to be all the rage among the recent wave of brides and grooms.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>NYC sweeties Nova and Reemo Styles<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2024\/07\/30\/lifestyle\/cost-conscious-couples-save-money-with-crazy-wedding-hacks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> previously told The Post<\/a> that they made guests pay $333 per person for tickets to their Big Apple-themed big day.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Phil, a UK man, separately revealed that his best friend, Jake, <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2024\/03\/28\/lifestyle\/my-best-friend-demanded-i-pay-2-k-to-attend-their-wedding\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">charged him and other well-wishers $2,528<\/a> to attend his vows swap.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey had basically got a free wedding out of it,\u201d griped Phil in a virtual rant.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a 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Customarily, newlyweds are often gifted monogrammed \u201chis\u201d and \u201chers\u201d hand towels in celebration of their holy matrimony.\u00a0 But luxe linens are apparently the last thing on one uncompromising couple\u2019s list, as the fussy fianc\u00e9es are giving themselves separate \u201chis\u201d and \u201chers\u201d wedding ceremonies.\u00a0 A Reddit user claims that their unyielding sister-in-law and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":191570323,"featured_media":11321,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_wpcom_ai_launchpad_first_post":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"{title}\n\n{excerpt}\n\n{url}","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1910],"tags":[5168,1922,1962,2694,2775,2152,2282,4302,5169,5166,3047,1911,2296,1907,2309,1948,5167],"class_list":["post-11320","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-micro-wedding","tag-agree","tag-bride","tag-brides","tag-ceremonies","tag-groom","tag-lifestyle","tag-marriage","tag-reddit","tag-separate","tag-sex-relationships","tag-size","tag-style","tag-theyre","tag-wedding","tag-wedding-planning","tag-weddings","tag-weird-but-true"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pciheA-2WA","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":9958,"url":"https:\/\/espacestudio.ca\/en\/bride-and-groom-split-wedding-guests-into-a-and-b-listers-only-invite-b-listers-to-watch-recording-on-zoom\/","url_meta":{"origin":11320,"position":0},"title":"Bride and Groom Split Wedding Guests Into A- and B-Listers \u2014 Only Invite B-Listers to Watch Recording on Zoom","author":"ESPACE STUDIO","date":"April 8, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"A friend of the couple explained the uncomfortable situation in a recent post on Reddit's WeddingShaming threadGetty A stock image of a wedding invitaitonA bride and groom who opted for a small wedding came up with a unique solution to include their larger circle of loved ones in the occasion.In\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Wedding Venue&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Wedding Venue","link":"https:\/\/espacestudio.ca\/en\/category\/weddings\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"Bride and Groom Split Wedding Guests Into A- and B-Listers \u2014 Only Invite B-Listers to Watch Recording on Zoom","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/espacestudio.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712608214_Bride-and-Groom-Split-Wedding-Guests-Into-A-and-B-Listers.jpeg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/espacestudio.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712608214_Bride-and-Groom-Split-Wedding-Guests-Into-A-and-B-Listers.jpeg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=350%2C200 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/espacestudio.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712608214_Bride-and-Groom-Split-Wedding-Guests-Into-A-and-B-Listers.jpeg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=525%2C300 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/espacestudio.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712608214_Bride-and-Groom-Split-Wedding-Guests-Into-A-and-B-Listers.jpeg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=700%2C400 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/espacestudio.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712608214_Bride-and-Groom-Split-Wedding-Guests-Into-A-and-B-Listers.jpeg?fit=1200%2C800&ssl=1&resize=1050%2C600 3x"},"classes":[]},{"id":4482,"url":"https:\/\/espacestudio.ca\/en\/a-guide-to-a-hindu-wedding-ceremony\/","url_meta":{"origin":11320,"position":1},"title":"A Guide to a Hindu Wedding Ceremony","author":"ESPACE STUDIO","date":"May 10, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] How is a Hindu Wedding Affected by Coronavirus? 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