There’s a lot that goes into wedding planning—from finalizing the wedding budget to orchestrating a bridal shower. But perhaps one of the least stressful, most fun parts of the planning process is choosing your music. And just as the happy couple gets to have their first dance, the groom and his mother typically take to the dance floor to share a memorable moment together as well.

Once you have the perfect song selected, you can decide if you want to practice and take dance lessons for a more formal dance number, or wing it on the day of the wedding. No matter how professional your steps are, the dance will be memorable and meaningful on its own—especially with a song selected that is special to both of you.